The Wounds that Time Won’t Heal

The Wounds that Time Won’t Heal

When I speak to men who experienced abuse as children, I see a common pattern: even after the physical wounds heal, emotional wounds are still there. Physical pain can be traumatizing, and it’s not the only kind of pain. Traumatic experiences can also scar us in...
Echoes of Abandonment

Echoes of Abandonment

Think back to when you were a kid, and what your relationship with your parents was like. The sad reality is, a lot of us don’t grow up with both our parents present. Guys I’ve talked to who experienced this sometimes brush it off. They minimize the pain their younger...
Do Something While You Heal

Do Something While You Heal

What do you think of when you imagine talking through your trauma? Probably a sparse therapist office, with maybe a shelf of books and a couch. Everything is still as you discuss what happened. Right? You might feel like squirming or fidgeting just thinking about...