Hurt Breeds More Hurt

Hurt Breeds More Hurt

One of trauma’s detrimental effects is that it can be cyclical. How many times have you heard people say, “abuse survivors often go on to abuse others”?  This is because hurting people often hurt people. They lash out of their pain. They believe their trauma is...
Trauma Can Affect Anyone

Trauma Can Affect Anyone

When someone has experienced a trauma, their reaction is sometimes, “I never thought this kind of thing would happen to me.”  We generally don’t like to think about the horrors of trauma. It’s heartbreaking and damaging. So, even when we see others experiencing...
Don’t Expect a Quick Fix

Don’t Expect a Quick Fix

Healing is a process that takes time. It’s important for the loved ones of men who are healing to understand that. Maybe you imagine your guy smiling and acting in healthy ways days from now. That’s not going to happen. Trauma happens quickly sometimes, but healing...